A woman who lost faith in humanity
some*INSIGHTS*
Humanity! Do all humans have humanity?
There is one happiest day in every girl’s life. The one where she meets her other half, The BETTER half. The one where she decides to take a step ahead into the world of LOVE. The day where they took 7 vows and decided to live happily ever after. No matter what, they will support each other in every way. They will hold on to each other until death parts them.
Yeah! They were getting married :)
“Your parents paid me the price in return to marry an uneducated, stupid, and ugly woman. You have made my life hell. I feel ashamed to take you anywhere. You have no class no brain. You are useless.”-He uses to say this in their everyday conversation. He never came closer to her. He always hated her. She tried everything to make him feel that She is no less than an educated, smart and beautiful woman. She doesn’t want to give up on their relationship. She wanted to be the one he wants. She has faith that everything will be fine one day. “I love him and I can do anything for him. I’ll make him fall for me for sure :)”
One fine day, The man said something weird- “I married you because of my parents but now I don’t care anymore”. This stucked not in her mind but in her heart. Why? And after 8 months She met the true side of her dear Husband. The actual reason behind his unacceptable behavior. Her love never loved her :( He had and still has an affair with another woman. He loved that woman before their marriage. The man married the woman because his parents didn’t accept the relationship with the other woman. He was still in love with that woman. He never accepted their marriage and never accepted the woman he married. They work in the same office. They still have an affair. Now he decided to go back to his love because she was getting married and he can’t bear this anymore. He was right no one can bear the pain of losing someone.
She was broke inside. She has done everything to make this marriage work. The sad truth is she was all alone in this marriage. She was making these efforts for nothing. She told everything to her parents but they still want her marriage to work. Not because they want their daughter to give marriage a say chance but they cared about society too :( They were scared that- WHAT if everyone got to know that their daughter had a fail marriage then they will lose all prestige in society.
She passed one more month with all the tensions and emotional torture. AT last, she broke in all ways. She decided to end her life. The man somehow saved her when she was trying to harm herself and took her back to her parents. He said- “I’ll pay for the medical bills but I can’t live with your daughter. I know I’m wrong but I’m sorry”. He left.
The broke woman found nothing good in her life. Now she was in the worst state of her life, The DEPRESSED state. She had lost all control over emotions. One day, she heard that her parents are talking about her second marriage. She felt she is a burden on her parents. No one understood the pain she has been going through. She then again decided to end her life. This time more carefully. But someone was also more careful this time. God saved her :) Her parents were sad to see their daughter like this but they were also sad hearing the gossips going around them.
I got to know about this woman in a phone call. Someone contacted me and sent me her horoscope. Honestly, I believe in ‘Karma’ more than a horoscope.
I was in shock to know that ‘marriage’ the purest relation between two souls can be such painful? She not only hates her husband, her parents but all humans at once. ‘She lost all hopes from humanity’. Sad? Very disturbing. Now think, who can replace “Humans”? Simple answer “Animals” and “The beautiful nature”.
Animals might not speak your language but they can hear you better than your best friend :) Nature also can understand your touch, your emotion just like your mother :) We’ve been taught about mother earth. It’s true, this nature is really our mother. I had to ask her parents not to go near her. She not only hates you but she hates all souls which have a body of a human. Let her be alone. She is depressed because of humans and sadly she is also one of them.
Let animals do the part. The one thing you can do is take her to the place where animals and nature are found in their natural state. Oh, Dear God! I might have asked something impossible I think. So then let's reverse it. Bring animals and beautiful nature to her. They gifted her a dog and 5 happy plants. She smiled for the first in 10 months :) They created a small garden on the balcony and gave her a family of street animals.
I still remember my last call with her mother. She said I got my daughter back. Today is June 3, It is 2:30 in the noon and she is sitting in her garden with her most favorite souls. She got the reason to live because she has to take care of so many beautiful souls.
Her mother and father also used to play with the dog. They give food and shelter to those street animals. Those animals have shown the woman that humanity is still alive. See! I’m playing with these humans. They are feeding me. Taking care of me. They might have done the mistake. But it’s time to forgive them. She learned forgiveness actually heals the pain :) She forgave her parents and her ex-husband too.
It’s been 2 years now. She is a happy loner :)
She is thinking to give marriage a second chance. She said she’ll think about this but this time she will listen to her heart and not the parents and society :) This time she will marry someone with all her heart. She will share everything she has been through and if someone is willing to accept her the way she is, then only she will marry the person. There will be no dowry, no parent's pressure, and no social pressure on him. He’ll get Only me and all my beautiful souls with me. How wonderful is she? She is really the most amazing person I ever got to know. The courage she has now is immensely powerful. I hope I’ll meet her one day. She is the strongest soul I ever knew :)
I presume you felt one thing closely “How Nature healed her?” The nourishment and upbringing she provides to all her children is her pure love. Isn’t it? You just need to give her your precious time. She has to take care of so many living beings. You can see how she has raised all her plants and animals. How innocent are they? How well behaved are they? Do they know what a selfless good deed means? I think yes. Much better than us for sure :)
I hope you don’ find yourself in this article. Instead, YOU find yourself being the one who can help someone who is going through this. You might be dealing with a very small problem in your life but someone around you is dealing with life itself. It’s big. It’s really big. You can find that one. There is nothing bigger than saving somebody’s life. And the happiness you get 2after saving someone is even beyond being a Trillionaire :) You can give justice to yourself and humanity :)
So let’s make everyone believe in this. Yes! All humans have humanity :)
~ Shilpee
(You might find some unclear statements in this article. How someone contacted me? and how I reached their parents? Let this be unclear and anonymous :) Thanks)
